My Gym: Fancy Dress Fun

One of the most popular approaches to children's birthday parties is fancy dress, but it can be a difficult thing to organize. If you're holding a fancy dress party for your child, how can you make sure that it goes well and everyone involved has a good time?

Most fancy dress parties have themes. It's possible to run them without, but many children (and even some parents) will have difficulty coming up with costume ideas without that bit of extra prompting. Themes encourage people to be more creative. However, not every good party theme works for fancy dress. It's easy to dress up as a fairy tale character or a pirate, but harder to dress up in a fun way for a inflatables or racing car theme. Obviously, the most important factor in choosing the theme is what your child wants, but you'll need to plan together to come up with something suitable.

Prizes for the best costumes are now so common at fancy dress parties that children expect them and will be upset if you don't include them. Including two runners-up as well as an overall winner will help to decrease aggressive competition. You should be clear from the start that costumes bought or hired for the occasion won't be considered for the prize. This will make sure that the same advantaged children don't win at every party they go to. Try to keep in mind not only what looks impressive but also what represents impressive imaginative effort and what has been the most trouble to create.

Inevitably, some children arrive at fancy dress parties without costumes, often because their parents simply haven't been willing to help them. To avoid these children feeling left out, and to avoid diluting the party theme, try to have some simple costumes available for them to borrow. These can include things like cardboard masks and paper hats which are easy to make and cost next to nothing. Face paints also help children to be creative with last-minute costumes.

Fancy dress children's birthday parties can be lots of fun for everyone, so make sure your children get to experience the excitement of hosting them.

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